Create a Birth Plan

Have a mental picture of your ideal delivery? Write it out.

Create a Birth PlanA birth plan is a simple, clear statement of your preferences regarding the birth of your baby that you can share with your provider. You may want to write one page for an uncomplicated birth/postpartum, and a second page that details your preferences if complications do occur. Here are some prompts to get you thinking.

Setting

  • Hospital, birthing center, or home?
  • People in the room during birth?
  • Dimmed lights? Music? Photos? Videotaping?

Labor

  • Positioned in bed, walking, or squatting?
  • Birthing tub or shower?

Pain Management

  • Breathing/relaxation techniques?
  • Imagery?
  • Massage or acupuncture?
  • Pain medication or an epidural?

Monitoring the Baby

  • Internal exams?
  • Continuous fetal monitors?

Medical Interventions

  • Breaking the water?
  • Induction with oxytocin?
  • Episiotomy?
  • Forceps or vacuum extraction?

In an Emergency

  • Who stays with you?
  • Who acts as liaison between medical staff and family?
  • Transport plans if it’s a home birth?
  • Any other special requests?

Newborn Planning

  • Hold your baby before testing/bathing?
  • Husband to cut the umbilical cord?
  • Circumcision?
  • Saving cord blood?
  • Rooming-in or newborn nursery?

Keep in mind that “normal” has a wide range of definitions. Use words such as “preferences” and “as long as birth progresses normally.”

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